Janie's Blog

A peak inside the brain of a practicing divorce lawyer and certified life coach.

Manuals and Heavy Backpacks mindset

We all have manuals for the people in our lives. A manual is simply a set of rules that we...

Helen Wanted To Fire Me Today. mindset

I'm pretty sure that Helen* wanted to fire me today, or she at least seriously considered...

It's okay to say, "I shouldn't have said that." mindset

We've all screwed up and said something to our (former) spouses that we wish we had not said --...

Why DO we pump the brakes? mindset

Choose Curiosity. mindset

Today, Helen's* ex asked her to transport the children to an event that he wanted them to attend,...

How Divorces are like Plane Crashes. . .. . . and not in the way you're thinking. mindset

Most people who know me know that I love to read. My idea of a super-fun evening is me in...

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If You're Struggling To Peacefully Co-Parent After Divorce, Stop Telling Yourself This Lie. . .