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Clean up your Brain and your Divorce will be EASY

Life and Divorce Coaching from a Practicing Divorce Lawyer and Certified Life Coach

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Is your relationship with your EX sucking the life out of you?

Do you keep wishing and waiting for him to change so that you can feel better (even though you know deep down that’s not happening)?

How will your life change if you can feel at peace with that relationship no matter what he does?

I have great news for you.  (Keep scrolling down.)

I totally get you, and I can help.

My name is Janie Lanza Vowles.  I am a practicing divorce lawyer and certified life coach.

I've spent the last twenty years coaching so many clients on managing communication with exes who are, well, let's just say "inflexible." 

Artfully handling communication with a difficult ex is one of the things that I've gotten very good at. 

And I can show you how to do it, too.  In fact, that is exactly what I do inside of my coaching program.

You don't have to worry anymore about what he's going to do or say, because  -- once you've completed my program. . .

. . . it won't matter what he says or does.  I know. . . you don't believe me right now.  That's okay.  I believe for both of us.

Interested? | Here's how it works.

1 - The Formula

First, I teach you a formula that you can use to solve ANY problem without waiting or wishing for anything outside of you to change, including your ex.

2 - The Protocol

I'll walk you step-by-step through creating your communication protocol.  This is the system you will use to confidently and peacefully communicate with your EX, no matter what he says or does.

3 - Access

In addition to our coaching sessions, you'll have unlimited email access to me anytime you need my help responding to a message from your EX.

4 - Results

You start finding peace and creating space for an awesome life.  I get to watch it happen.  We'll both love it.  Okay, I might love it a little bit more, but you won't even be mad about that.

What I’m going to teach you about communicating with your ex is not what you're expecting.

And that's awesome news. . .

Because the truth is you don't need someone to commiserate with you about how hard it is to co-parent after divorce.

And you definitely don't need another Facebook group where everyone complains about how their ex is a total narcissist.

You need a real solution -- a step-by-step process -- that is entirely within your control. 

That is exactly what I have for you inside of my coaching program.

Once we nail this down (and we will), you won't believe all of the space that opens up for you to live an awesome life.

Access the Free Training:

In 10 minutes, learn the 3 steps you should take to confidently and peacefully communicate with the ex..

Start shifting the narrative RIGHT NOW.

What clients are saying. . .

"Thank you for your confidence in me.  I’ve come a long way with your guidance and support and I appreciate you so much.”


"Your insight and explanation of how to incorporate the formula really cuts through the thought clutter in my head and blows my mind in the best way." 

- Catherine

I accept a limited number of clients into my coaching program.


Click the button to get direct access to my calendar to schedule a complimentary coaching session.

This is a private (just me and you), virtual (via zoom) 20-minute session.

By the end of the session, you'll know what to do next.

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