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The Divorce Mindset Blog

Let’s clean up your brain. . . and clear space for your awesome life.

Your mindset matters.

As a family lawyer, my job is to tell my clients what action to take to maximize the odds of getting the results they want. . .

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Why your brain is being mean to you.

When I tell clients about my coaching program, they tell me that it seems like I made it for them.  They’re right.

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Fender Benders and the Autonomic Nervous System

Sooooo, I backed out of my garage into my son's car.  Yup, just backed right into it.

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Do NOT eat that doughnut.

When my clients ask me how they should respond a particular message from the ex, many times I’ll say. . .

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Being Uncomfortable and 9th Grade Math

Algebra and geometry were not my best subjects in high school.  I was the kid who. . . 

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Our kids will remember what we do NOT say. . .

I have an old friend.  I’m going to call her “Helen,” which is not her real name.

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Other Posts

On January 15, 2022, I moved my older son into his college dorm for the very first time.  Read more. . . 

Helen* sent me a lot of text messages today.  They were not from her to me.  The messages were from her (soon-to-be-ex) husband to Helen. Read more . . .

There is a girl pictured in the photo with this post.  I remember her.  She was excited, and very hungry.  Hungry for approval. . . from anyone and everyone around her. Read more. . .

I'm at an age where my nieces and nephews are having their own children. . . Read more

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